For decades, most autism research focused on boys. As a result, many girls, whose autism can look different, are diagnosed years later or are misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression.
Camouflaging
Many autistic girls learn to "camouflage" or "mask" by studying and copying peers, rehearsing conversations, and hiding their differences. It can work in the short term, but it's exhausting and often leads to meltdowns at home after holding it together all day.
Signs that may be overlooked
- Intense interests that look "typical" (animals, books, a favorite show) but are unusually deep
- One close friend, or trouble keeping up with changing group dynamics
- Strong reactions to noise, textures, or clothing
- Being seen as shy, perfectionistic, or anxious
- Exhaustion after social situations
A careful evaluation looks past the surface and listens closely to parents' observations. If something has always felt different, your instincts are worth exploring.